Stop trying to lead your marriage.

Start learning to lead yourself. Your relationship struggles aren't about her. They're about the wounded masculine energy you've been carrying since childhood.

 

GET THE MASCULINE ENERGY AUDIT

Stop trying to lead your marriage.

Start learning to lead yourself. Your relationship struggles aren't about her. They're about the wounded masculine energy you've been carrying since childhood.

GET THE MASCULINE ENERGY AUDIT

You’re a good man. You work hard, you provide, you try to do the right thing.

So why does everything feel so difficult at home?

Why does it feel like you're walking on eggshells? Why does your wife seem frustrated with you no matter what you do? Why do you feel like you’re failing as a husband even though you’re trying your best?

You’ve probably been told you need to "communicate better" or "be more vulnerable" or "share your feelings more."

But every time you try those things, it either feels forced or backfires completely.

THE AUDIT WILL TELL YOU WHY

THIS IS WHAT'S HAPPENING

  • You feel like you're constantly guessing what she needs and getting it wrong
  • You're tired of being the "bad guy" every time there's conflict
  • You want to lead your family but you're not sure how to do it without creating more tension
  • You feel like your masculinity has become a liability instead of an asset
  • You're walking on eggshells, trying not to trigger another fight
  • You wonder if you're just "not built" for modern marriage
 

But it doesn’t have to be that way

But it doesn’t have to be that way

Your relationship isn’t falling apart because you can’t communicate or because you picked the wrong person.



Your marriage problems aren’t about communication skills or compatibility.


They're about wounded masculine energy that you've been carrying since childhood – wounds that have never been properly identified or healed.

These wounds affect everything: how you handle conflict, how you express your needs, how you show up as a leader, and how you relate to your wife’s feminine energy.


Most men have no idea what healthy masculine energy actually looks like. You've been operating from a wounded version of masculinity your entire adult life, and it's creating chaos in your relationship.

But here’s the breakthrough: once you see these wounds, you can heal them.

And this is how we’re going to do it...

The Masculine Energy Audit

with David Lea

 

A comprehensive diagnostic designed specifically for men who are ready to understand what's really driving their relationship struggles – and what to do about it.

 

This isn’t coaching. This is diagnosis.

The Masculine Energy Audit is a root-cause diagnostic built for high-integrity men who are tired of guessing and ready for answers.

Through a comprehensive assessment and one-on-one session with me, you’ll discover exactly where your masculine energy has been wounded and how those wounds are showing up in your marriage.

You’ll walk away with clarity about who you are, what’s been holding you back, and the exact roadmap for becoming the man and leader your family needs.

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How the Audit Works:

The Assessment

You'll complete our proprietary 92-question Masculine Energy Assessment designed to uncover blind spots in your leadership, relationships, and emotional history. Most men have never seen their patterns mapped out like this.

The Personal Review

After completing your assessment, you'll book your private session with me, David Lea. Together, we'll walk through your results, understand the hidden dynamics driving your frustration, and build a custom roadmap for healing and leadership.

The Next Step

If aligned, I'll offer next-step recommendations for deeper work. Either way, you'll walk away with clarity, peace, and a stronger understanding of who you are—and who you're meant to become.

Tomorrow...

What if you could wake up knowing exactly who you are as a man?

What if you could lead your family with confidence instead of second-guessing every decision?

What if you could handle conflict without feeling like you're walking through a minefield?

What if your wife could relax into her feminine energy because she trusts your masculine leadership?

What if you could be yourself – fully yourself – without worrying that your masculinity is somehow wrong or problematic?

This isn't about becoming someone you're not. This is about healing the wounds that have kept you from being who you really are.

This is what you’ll discover through the Masculine Energy Audit.
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“I’m a better communicator”

What started out to help my relationship with my wife turned into just helping me overall in general. David helped me understand me, and I've grown a lot through it. My relationship with my wife is so much better now, it's helped me business-wise, and I'm a better communicator. Ultimately this coaching helps you in every aspect of your life.

- JASON

“I see my own blind spots”

I have a growing self-confidence, a stronger voice, a more willingness to be assertive. I understand my roles and responsibility as a husband better now than I did before. I see my own blind spots.

- ALEX

“I’ve experienced enormous healing”

However much I've spent with David is well worth it. I've experienced enormous healing. There's this massive liberation from feeling responsible for other people and feeling like I have to constantly manage an emergency.

- STEVE

“It’s okay to be me”

I'm a very masculine man, and that had become a dirty word in my marriage. David helped me get my confidence back that the way I was thinking wasn't wrong. He made me realize it was okay to think what I thought. It's okay to be me.

- KEITH

THIS IS FOR YOU IF:

  • You feel like you're walking on eggshells at home
  • You're tired of guessing what your wife needs
  • You want to lead with purpose—not pressure
  • You've tried therapy, podcasts, and still feel stuck
  • You're willing to look in the mirror with courage and clarity

THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF:

  • You're looking for quick fixes, tips, or scripts
  • You want someone to fix your wife instead of yourself
  • You're not ready to take radical self-responsibility
  • You're uncomfortable being honest about your emotional life
  • You're just browsing—this is for men ready to do the work
I'N IN - SHOW ME WHAT WORKS

Meet David Lea

I know firsthand what it's like to feel lost in your own masculinity.

For years, I struggled with the same questions you're facing: How do I lead without controlling? How do I be strong without being harsh? How do I honor my masculine nature in a world that seems to see it as a detriment?

Through my own healing journey and hundreds of private sessions with men like you, I've discovered something crucial: Most relationship problems aren't about what you're doing wrong. They're about wounds you don't even know you have. 

My proprietary, trauma-informed audit process does what traditional therapy and coaching can't: getting to the root fast so you can begin healing what truly matters.

The man your family needs you to become starts right here.

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What’s Included:

  • Masculine Energy Assessment – our signature 92-question framework to reveal your emotional blind spots, leadership wounds, and inverted energy
  • Personalized Findings Report – an extensive written summary of your results with tailored insights from David Lea
  • One-on-One Review Session – meet with David privately to discuss your results, integrate the findings, and clarify your next move
Best Value

One Payment
$297

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A final notE
 

The choice is yours.

Right now, you're at a crossroads.

You can keep doing what you've been doing – trying to figure it out on your own, walking on eggshells, wondering why your best efforts aren't working.

Or you can choose to get real answers.

You can choose to understand exactly where your masculine energy has been wounded and what to do about it.

You can choose to become the leader your family needs – not through pressure or control, but through authentic masculine strength.

Over 200 men have completed this audit, and most say it revealed more in one session than years of therapy.

The clarity you’ve been searching for is here.
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Answers to your questions

You cannot lead your marriage until you learn to lead yourself.

The Masculine Energy Audit is where it begins.

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