You’re trying to be a good man. You work hard, you provide, you try to do the right thing.
So why does your marriage feel like the one place you can't win?
Why does it feel like you're walking on eggshells? Why does your wife seem frustrated no matter what you do? Why do you feel like you’re failing as a husband, even though you’re giving it everything you've got?
You’ve probably been told you need to "communicate better" or "be more vulnerable" or "share your feelings more."
But if you've tried those things, you already know—they fall flat, feel forced, or worse, they backfire.
Because the real issue isn't communication.
It's unprocessed trauma.
And until the root of the pattern is identified, nothing changes.
IDENTIFY THE ROOT CAUSEWhat you’re experiencing isn’t random. It follows a pattern. When we can see the pattern, we can trace it back to the root.
HERE'S WHAT'S REALLY HAPPENING
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You’re respected everywhere — except with your wife.
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You're tired of being painted as the "bad guy" in every conflict.
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You try to lead your family — but every attempt creates more tension.
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You've built success in business, but at home it feels like you're failing.
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You're walking on eggshells, trying not to trigger another fight.
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You’ve started questioning whether you’re ever going to be "good enough."
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You’re exhausted from carrying success everywhere else while your marriage quietly erodes behind the scenes.
They’re rooted in unresolved wounds you’ve been carrying since childhood — patterns you never consciously chose, but have been running the show.
These wounds shape everything.
How you handle conflict. How you express your needs. How you lead. How you respond to your wife's energy.
You’ve been operating from a version of "masculinity" you inherited — not one you consciously built... and it's creating chaos in your relationship.
Until you identify the pattern, you will keep repeating it.
But here’s the breakthrough:
once you see it, you can heal it.
And this is how we’re going to do it...
The Masculine Diagnostic Audit™
with David Lea
A comprehensive root-cause diagnostic for men who are ready to understand what’s really driving their relationship struggles — and what to do about it
This is the doorway.
Not the destination.
The Masculine Energy Audit is a root-cause diagnostic built for high-achieving men who are tired of guessing and ready for answers.
Through a comprehensive assessment and private diagnostic session, you’ll uncover where your masculine energy has been shut down — and how those wounds trace back to early conditioning.
You’ll walk away from this experience with clarity and precision. About who you are, what’s been holding you back, and the exact roadmap for becoming the man and leader your family needs.
You cannot lead your marriage
until you learn to lead yourself.
The Masculine Energy Audit is where it begins.
BEGIN THE DIAGNOSTIC
Inside the Diagnostic Process
The Assessment
You'll complete our proprietary 67-question comprehensive Assessment designed to expose blind spots in your leadership, relational patterns, and emotional conditioning. Most men have never seen their patterns mapped out like this.
The Private Review
After completing your assessment, you'll enter your private diagnostic session with me, David Lea. Together, we'll walk through your results, understand the hidden dynamics driving your frustration, and build a custom roadmap for healing and masculine leadership to begin.
The Next Step
If aligned, I’ll outline the next strategic move for your growth and healing. Either way, you'll walk away with clarity, peace, and a grounded understanding of who you are now — and the man you are meant to become.
Picture This...
What if you woke up knowing exactly who you are as a man?
You lead your family with confidence — without second-guessing every decision.
You handle conflict without feeling like you're walking through a minefield.
Your wife relaxes into her feminine energy because she trusts your leadership.
You are fully yourself — without questioning whether something is wrong with your masculinity.
This isn't about becoming someone or something you're not. This is about healing the wounds that have held you back and removing what's been in the way.
This is what begins when you enter the Masculine Diagnostic Audit.
BEGIN THE AUDIT
Real Change Happens When You Learn How to Lead Yourself
“I’m a better communicator”
What started out to help my relationship with my wife turned into just helping me overall in general. David helped me understand me, and I've grown a lot through it. My relationship with my wife is so much better now, it's helped me business-wise, and I'm a better communicator. Ultimately this approach helps you in every aspect of your life.
- JASON
“I see my own blind spots”
I have a growing self-confidence, a stronger voice, and more willingness to be assertive. I understand my roles and responsibility as a husband better now than I did before. I see my own blind spots.
- ALEX
“I’ve experienced enormous healing”
However much I've spent with David is well worth it. I've experienced enormous healing. There's this massive liberation from feeling responsible for other people and from feeling like I have to constantly manage an emergency.
- STEVE
“It’s okay to be me”
I'm a very masculine man, and that had become a dirty word in my marriage. David helped me get my confidence back. That the way I was thinking wasn't wrong. He made me realize it was okay to think what I thought. It's okay to be me.
- KEITH
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
- You feel like you're walking on eggshells in your own home
- You're tired of guessing what your wife needs — and getting it wrong.
- You want to lead with purpose—not pressure
- You've tried therapy, podcasts, and still feel stuck
- You're willing to look in the mirror with courage and clarity
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
- You're looking for quick fixes, tips, or scripts
- You want someone to fix your wife instead of yourself
- You're not ready to take radical self-responsibility
- You're uncomfortable being honest about your emotional life
- You're just browsing. This is for men ready to do the work
Why I Built This...
I know firsthand what it's like to feel lost in your own masculinity.
For years, I struggled with the same questions you're facing: How do I lead without controlling? How do I be strong without being harsh? How do I honor my masculine nature in a world that seems to see it as a detriment?
Through my own healing journey and hundreds of private sessions with men like you, I've discovered something crucial:
Most relationship problems aren't about what you're doing wrong. They are an echo of unhealed childhood wounds you don't even know you have.
My proprietary, trauma-informed audit process goes where traditional therapy and coaching don't: getting to the root fast so you can begin healing what truly matters.
The leader your family needs you to become starts right here.
GET THE AUDIT NOW
Your Complete Diagnostic Experience:
A final notE
The choice is yours.
Right now, you're at a crossroads.
You can keep doing what you've been doing – trying to figure it out on your own, walking on eggshells, wondering why your best efforts aren't working.
Or you can choose to get to the root.
You can choose to understand exactly where your masculine energy has been wounded and what to do about it.
You can choose to become the leader your family needs – not through pressure or control, but through authentic masculine strength.
Over 300 men have completed this audit, and most say it revealed more in one session than years of therapy.
The clarity you’ve been searching for is here.
Private. Confidential. Direct access to David.
BEGIN THE DIAGNOSTIC
